Sex and Love

Why Are You on a Dating Site?

One of the things I’ve learned about people on dating sites is that they’re afraid to fall in love.

They desperately want a partner in their lives. They want a person to talk to, to share stories with, to make plans with. They want a companion.

But when it comes to the potential of having “the real thing,” they back out, or they get scared, and they just return to swiping.

Does this sound like you?

Have you met or seen someone you thought was amazing, but told yourself, I’ll never measure up?

Do you scroll through profiles and pictures, getting so addicted to just browsing profiles and pictures, you’ve forgotten what it is you’re actually after?

Are you spending so much time on porn sites that you don’t know how to actually engage with a real live human being when it comes time to kiss or hug or suggest sex and intimacy as a next step?

Or are you having mindless, hungry sex with someone you barely know, only to be left feeling empty afterward, wanting something you can’t put your finger on?

I’m here to help.

I’ll help you get clear on who you are and what you want, as well as any damaging patterns you’ve adopted that you’ll want to break in order to move into a more fulfilling love life. I’ll help you set intentions and adhere to practices that fulfill those intentions. And while my coaching is going to challenge you, it will also help you to loosen up, to lighten up, and have fun.

Real-life sex and interaction with a fellow human being, in an environment where expectations have been discussed, where communication is clear, where you can both grow and learn and discover, is so much fun. It’s healing. It’s awesome.

It’s way better than sitting in front of your laptop looking at porn.

Like, seriously.

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